It can take on the worst kind of words imaginable directed right at you. It takes you by surprise and the only thing you can do is to be dumbfounded and completely silent.
We know from experience it is their own pain, but it digs deep with relentless claws right at your biggest weakness.
Very cunning but such a lie.
Don’t be fooled into believing it to be true. It is the enemy they are believing and we know too well how susceptible we all can be.
It is truly one of the hardest things to do, but forgiveness is the answer. When you can ask God to bless them then you have succeeded. It will in turn bless you.