When you finally get to a place where you only want positive people in your life, you have to let go of the baggage. We were groomed to be people pleasers; but when we let go of that need, we can be free to have real loving people in our lives.
When you finally start attracting people who are willing to see all of you, accept you, and still be kind to you, you know you've made it to the other side. And I mean they are sincere.
This is my prayer for you, to have the discernment to find people who are kind and compassionate because that is who they truly are. It does not matter how much money they have, the color of their skin, or anything we can see with our worldly eyes. They don't even have to have endured the pain and suffering we have.
They just are children of God as well and identify themselves as so even if secretly.